There are days when I simply cannot think of anything to write.

Writer’s block isn’t just the absence of words—it’s a heavy stillness, like standing in a quiet room where nothing moves. You sit there, pen in hand or cursor blinking, waiting for the spark that refuses to show up. It’s frustrating, almost personal, as if the very thing you love has turned its back on you.

But here’s what I’ve learned: inspiration rarely comes when you hunt it down. It shows up when you’re living, when your mind is loosened and open. Sometimes it’s during a walk, when the air smells faintly of rain and the world feels softer. Sometimes it’s in the way a stranger laughs in line at the grocery store, or in the sunlight pooling on your kitchen table in the morning.

When the words won’t come, I remind myself that creating is less about forcing and more about noticing. I read—books, poems, articles, even scraps of old journals. I let music or silence fill the space. I step away and do something with my hands: cook, garden, rearrange a shelf. Somehow, these small, ordinary moments create cracks where ideas can slip back in.

Stories—rather, ideas—are everywhere.

And in between the activities, there are conversations—with friends, with family. The ride to and from a mariachi gig, chatting with a client between songs, talking with my dad or siblings at breakfast. These moments bring tidbits of life that can become material for a story. Sometimes, the seemingly endless Instagram reels from my sister spark an idea or remind me of something I can develop into a story.

Writer’s block, I’ve realized, is not the enemy. It’s a pause, an invitation to look up from the page and rejoin the world for a while. Inspiration lives out there—in the quiet and the chaos, in the moments we’re too busy to notice when we’re trying too hard. And when it finally returns, it often brings something better than what we were chasing in the first place.

For me, it’s more than writer’s block. It’s a creative pause—a moment when my mind needs to step away from the page, to wander in a different direction, to breathe in life rather than try to capture it all at once. It’s not a failure or a void; it’s a signal that my creativity needs a new path, a fresh rhythm, a different kind of attention.

In these pauses, I discover the spaces where inspiration quietly waits—in a song drifting through the house, in the light falling across the kitchen table, in the laughter of strangers, or in the memories that rise when I’m not expecting them. These moments remind me that creation isn’t always about producing—it’s about noticing, feeling, absorbing.

For me—and for my neurodivergent mind—there are other avenues of expression. I jump back and forth between music, photography, and writing. When one fails to move me, another takes over. Each outlet becomes a doorway, a way to move the energy around until it gathers into something new, something alive.

And in this, I’ve learned to trust the pause. I’ve learned that it’s not an absence but a presence—a quiet companion nudging me to live first, and write later. In that space, ideas grow in their own time, often bringing something better than what I was chasing in the first place.

For me, the pause isn’t a problem—it’s part of the process, a rhythm of creativity that asks me to slow down, to shift, to notice. And in allowing it, I find that my mind doesn’t stop; it simply moves in ways I hadn’t yet imagined.

I mean, come on—this post started only because I didn’t have anything to write. And in the end, I did.

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